Think you are passive aggressive?
Then clearly you haven’t met this guy! This is how NOT to pick up a girl. Assertiveness is key, but not when you apply it this way.
Leave a comment in this post and tell me what you think =)
The story is this: a girl was out with friends having drinks on King St (in Toronto ). This guy approaches her and won’t leave her alone -saying how cute she is. She finally gives in and hands the guy her business card to get rid of him. The attached is an MP3 file of not one, but TWO voicemails this guy left. This goes down in the history books – especially the second voice mail. After hearing them you can clearly see why she didn’t call him back - instead she called in to the Z103.5 morning show & had them play this on the air. Ladies: He is out there…
Tags: aggressive, Assertiveness, Dating & Sex, Funny, pick up, rejection
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Even at my WORST, i was never THAT BAD! This man needs some SERIOUS gaming lessons! On behalf of all men out there i apologize to any and all women that have been subjected to guys like this!
i donno .. i think he’s sort of sweet. LOL> NOT!
And you wonder why I’d rather be single. Too many losers with issues. I just hope I’m not one! lol
OH MY GOD is this guy for a real? what a freakin’ weirdo…
why not? he was being honest and direct…
Some people just aren’t calibrated properly hahah.
I like him…. I like heeeeeem a lot…LOL
Omg he has some mental disorer himself…Sad lol
He has issues within himself that had to be released over the phone. Obviously a loner – and a true lover of self. Sad.
Women need to buck up and be assertive in telling someone like that “NO” from the start. Anyone who keeps bugging them for numbers, and then gives them a card with a contact number, almost deserves these sort of messages (well, almost). Obviously the connection was rough from the start.
I agree with you that women need to say “NO!” right from the get-go. We need to clearly send LOSERS like this guy (he knows all about being passive-aggressive) a clear message to F@#k off. People in general and women in particular are way too nice…but that is no excuse for this person to have hounded her in the first place. Clearly, from the phone message he left, he likely did just that. Today, I would have had the guy removed from whatever club or restaurant I was in for harassment.
LOL at saying I don’t want you to call back if you have Depression or anxiety. Those illnesses can be treated.. but this guy is a total idiot and I think he will stay like that forever.
This guy actually sounds and talks a bit like Ross Jeffries (a so called “speed seduction artist”).
For real? LMAO Mind, I wouldn’t have given out my number in the first place. My friends did that one time to me and the guy didn’t stop calling for a couple months. >< Drove me bonkers. I just play dumb. Wow though… This is just special.
I don’t ENTIRELY blame him. Everything he’s assuming about the girl is 90% true of all women in the US. It’s ridiculous the subtlety, care, and the eggshells we have to walk on when trying to woo a girl. If girls didn’t play these retarded little mind-games all the time and were as assertive as men, these problems wouldn’t happen.
No, I praise this dude. Why? Because he had the balls to do what other guys couldn’t. Lay all the cards out on the table, cashing in all chips while bringing to light every flaw and pointless obstacle a girl throws at a man when he simply wants to date ONE time and see where it goes.
Girls, you’re too damn picky. This wouldn’t happen if you were just as assertive and direct.
This guy has future wife-beater written all over. It goes beyond having problems with “game” and indicates a dangerous level self-adoration mixed in with seeing women as objects to possess, rather than human beings. If anyone spoke to me with that kind of hubris or disrespect, I would immediately call the police. To have someone with that kind of attitude walking the streets is a public danger. Today, it’ll be about his approach with women. Tomorrow, his controlling nature will likely manifest in other ways.
the guy was a douche, but razz has a point
Bravo, I think it’s a great idea
Are you kidding me? This guy is a restraining order waiting to happen…I just don’t know what he could have done to get her card in the first place!?!?
Hilarious! This sounds like someone i knew in highschool growing up but amped up..i think Razz had some valid points,i think if this guy could go back and edit some of his comments&omit then i think the girl would have saw some humor in it and would have actually humored him with a date on funny and compassionate grounds..you never know!
This guy is seriously deluded. It’s the job for a man to pursue a woman….and while doing that, be respectful, charming, and complimentary. I imagine that this guy must be in love with himself. Wouldn’t be surprised if we find him kissing a mirror somewhere. As for the girl in the equation – very good instincts. If you see him again, give him a good kick in the balls….it won’t hurt him much since they are small.
why are you all saying Razz has a point? Razz has no point!
First of all, if women are anywhere close to being as assertive as men we get bashed for it, because guys are soooo easily threatened. We get turned into phycho control freaks.
Second, why the hell is it the girls fault for wanting to get rid of him…. I mean c’mon. The guy was clearly not going away, and you really don’t know the feeling men until you walk a mile in our high heels.
This is comming from a girl who has already had two stalkers in her life….there are more crazy people out there than sane!
1) he should wait for her to call if she doesnt call
back don’t bother….. why leave insane voicemails
that makes you look like an idiot…?
2) if she doesn’t call you back, it’s obvious!
3) repeat step 2
god i learned this stuff in grade 7 wtf